BE YOURSELF BUT YOU CAN BE BETTER

     Many a time, we find ourselves struggling with choosing a behavior to be known with and an achievement to be remembered for. When this happens, we find ourselves switching from one behavior to the other and changing our habits like DSTV channels. Today you are Don Jazzy and the next day you become Desmond Elliot. This a behavior every human is born with, it is like a pre-installed program. You see a friend with an attractive attitude and you are already feeling like you were him.

     Not minding its almost impossible to avoid this trend, our superiors and wise men never stop ringing the usual saying of PLEASE BE YOURSELF. They see you struggling to make changes and tell you to be yourself not minding whether you are changing for the better or the worst. And the bad part is that most people then take this statement so seriously that they don't even want to take a break and take a quick look at their attitudes to see what has not being going properly that need to be changed, which makes them remain same way and never make changes.

      There is nothing wrong in the statement "be yourself" but  so many wrongs in how it is applied in most cases. Be yourself but please learn to learn from others around you and see how you can modify something about yourself. for example
==Your friend is a good speaker, you can also learn to speak well. Do not say you were born shy.
== Your friend has good public manners, you can also learn from him. Do not say, "That is his behaviour, I love my bad manners, I want to be myself."  With this, You will never grow.
     With this, we now understand that being yourself goes beyond being you, maintaining your identity, but requires you to get hints from the life of other people around you on how to be a better you, so that you finally have a unique you and an achievement to be remembered for. 
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